Here's my take on this never ending .. alwz popping quesition.. which popped up again with the release of movie 'Vivah'. Haven't seen the movie.. but I know Sooraj is adamant on promoting good-human-values (yeah i dunn call them Indian values.. cus Indian values have got corrupted long before...). So, i'm sure Sooraj must have done something really good to the human value system..
Well as for arranged marriage or a love marriage..
All marriages are arranged marriages... some people arrange a life partner themselves, others let their parents do it! What is more important is Values... good values, like trust & honesty.. thats what makes one keep believing in Love & life. Else,... everything is fake. What is more important is .. honesty, trust & good moral values! whether a marriage is arranged by your parents or yourself.. doesn't matter.. But you have to be in love with the person you marry.. you start loving him after marriage or you loved him even before marriage.. dusn't matter..
The society over the years have got corrupted. People are busy working hard to earn their living.. & they have to work so hard they forget instilling value systems in their children. Thats the story for the middle class in the metros or anywhere.. With very few people encouraging their offsprings to stick to the moral values.. When you lose honesty.. you lose everything.. in every aspact of life...
Today people are trained to lie.. cus thats the only way to survive in this big bad world!! So the question is not love marriage vs arranged marriage.. The question is whether you are honest when you love somebody? or do you fall in love with someone just cus you were lonely? or just cus you didn't have any other option? or ...... so many questions.. & all of them true in the case of marriage too!!!
I think I can alwz fall in love with someone who is honest & sincere in his approach to life, no matter I find that person myself or my parents arrange a meeting with that person..
Practically.. the question remains unanswered though... :-)
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